Outline of Chapter 8
Look Wide
to Discover Your Teen’s Solutions
The Search for Exceptions
Exceptions are Solutions from the Past That Produced Desirable Outcomes
Exceptions Emerge from God’s Providence
Exceptions Can Be Found in the Teen’s Experiences
Exceptions Can be Found in Unexpected Places
How Can I Use Exceptions with My Angry Teen?
Ask Your Teen to Think Back
Profusely “Blame” Your Teen for Making Wise Choices in the Past
Re-Emphasize that Only Different Behavior Will Produce a Different Outcome
Allow Resistance to Signal That You May Be Pushing Your Own Solution, Not Your Teen’s
Wrap up: Look Wide